Brice Cherry: Parkview family loses their toughest warrior, but his legacy endures
Number 5 wonât be on the field for Parkview Christian Academy when the Pacers kick off their season on Friday night against Fort Worth THESA.
That jersey number will be affixed to the Pacersâ helmets and game balls, and will be featured on T-shirts worn by many of the fans. And youâd better believe that Number 5 will be in the hearts and minds of the Pacers.
Number 5 belonged to Jeremiah Thomas, one of the standouts of last yearâs Pacer team that claimed the TCAL Division II six-man football state championship. On Sunday, Thomas died at the far-too-soon age of 16 after a long battle with bone cancer.
âEverybodyâs hurting, theyâre all grieving in their own way,â Parkview Christian coach Bryce Frazier said. âHeâs been sick for a while, so when it finally happened, it was kind of surreal. We didnât want to believe that it had happened.â
As a football player, Thomas had been described as tough, gritty, the ultimate team guy. Last year he rushed for 852 yards, amassed 1,022 receiving yards, made 115 tackles, picked off three passes and scored 41 touchdowns as a do-it-all dynamo.
But Jeremiahâs impact on his community stretched far beyond what he could do with a football in his hands. Take, for instance, his greatest wish.
Youâre probably familiar with the Make-A-Wish Foundation. That non-profit organization works with the families of children and teenagers who have terminal illnesses to grant âwishes.â Typically, the experiences fall in the range of meeting a celebrity of some kind, maybe taking batting practice with Aaron Judge or volleying tennis balls with Serena Williams.
And why not? Those kids deserve a moment of joy.
Jeremiah Thomas used his wish differently. In a unique and amazingly sacrificial decision, he wanted to talk with Texas Governor Greg Abbott about his hope that the state might outlaw abortion. He ultimately got that opportunity.
Now, wherever you come down on the hot-button issue of abortion, you ought to admire a teenager who has such courage in his convictions that he wants to spend the last days of his life trying to affect change. Unfortunately, not everyone felt that way â as Jeremiah experienced a backlash of hateful comments on social media, including people who said that they wished he were dead.
Again, displaying a wisdom and a maturity far beyond his years, Jeremiah didnât condemn his attackers.
âI pity them,â Jeremiah said in an interview with the website Operation Save America. âTo have that much darkness in your heart that youâd want a kid with cancer to die. Makes me wonder what happened to them in their life. Itâs a scary place to be â mentally and spiritually. I pray God would have mercy on them.â
Personally, Iâm pro-life and consider a political candidateâs position on the abortion issue as the most important litmus test for my vote. So Iâm grateful for young people like Jeremiah, who devote their lives to meaningful causes.
As his cancer worsened in recent weeks, Jeremiah still maintained his joyful spirit to the end. Frazier said that he visited his star player last Wednesday, and though it was gut-wrenching to see Jeremiah suffering, the coach also came away uplifted.
âI told my wife, it was probably the hardest thing Iâve had to do in my life,â Frazier said. âI went over there, and he was obviously sick, but as soon I got there he grabbed my hand and went to shake my hand. I reached down and gave him a hug and told him I loved him, and he started telling me how much he was going to miss me. That broke me, man. ⊠But I got some closure, and to see the peace that his family felt, given everything theyâve had to deal with, it was truly amazing.â
Services honoring the life of Jeremiah are scheduled for 6-8 p.m. Thursday at Lakeshore Funeral Home, and on Friday at both the Church of the Open Door and at Oakwood Cemetery. Then, on Friday night, his parents will join the Parkview team and carry his jersey out onto the field prior to the Pacersâ season opener. Itâs sure to be an emotional moment for all involved.
Even before Jeremiah lost his battle with cancer, Parkview had made the decision to dedicate this season to him, adopting the motto âFight.â
The wordâs meaning resonates now more than ever, Frazier said.
âIn the past six months as heâs been sick, Jeremiah touched more people than most do in a hundred years,â Frazier said. âHe had a huge impact. I told the team, âDonât put that helmet on unless youâre ready to uphold his legacy.â Weâre going to try to live whatâs on that shirt. Thatâs our motto, and it means even more now than it did a month ago.â